THE SWEET SPOT BETWEEN PLANNING AND TRUSTING

Do you truly want to rise above problems in your life?

How would it feel to be able to find courage and strength inside of you where you didn’t know it even existed before?

And would it help you to have the strength to say no to little things that are distracting you from achieving your goals?

….Well, then beautiful, I know exactly what you need to do.

You NEED to have a clear vision for your future, in broken down/actionable steps. 

Honestly, this is non-negotiable.

Our minds are designed to think.

And if we have something powerful and passionate for our minds to think about for the future, then it can attach your mental resources to the vision and start planning and focusing.

If we have given up on our dreams, or feel like they’re too overwhelming, then our minds simply start digging around in the dusty corners of our mind for old worries, doubts, distractions and procrastination activities and thoughts.

Trust me, this is not how you want to live. 

So… be real with me right now.

Are you completely clear with what you want to create in your life and your future? 

In all areas of your life?

Or are you umming and ahhing and saying that you’re clear,  but you haven’t really put pen to paper and made it a plan?

So many of us are so busy with distractions and things that we say we don’t want in life, and it’s because we aren’t being CLEAR with what we actually DO want in life.

When you finally get clear on what you want (and break it down so it’s not overwhelmingly scary!) it makes life so much easier.

Trust me when I say, if you have attracted a desire or an opportunity into your life it’s because you are ready for it.

Even if it seems challenging…

The challenge is why we are here!

Some of the big decisions I’ve made, such as deciding to teach NLP were such BIG steps in terms of what I do want that the ‘feeling of growth’ was incredibly intense. But it was much more powerful than the feeling of indecision that swirled in my stomach in the months leading up to the decision.

When you take the plunge and decide what you want for your future it’s normal to feel a little uncomfortable! That’s because, chances are, you’re going to be embarking on something completely new and uncertain.

And we can get that feeling of ‘growth’ when we have a vision for our future that’s challenging us to grow and evolve.

I promise you, affirming what you want will give you clarity and perspective to shift your habits and actions towards the future you WANT to create. A big enough vision can eradicate self-sabotage, unwanted habits and negative thoughts.

And believing that something is possible is most of the battle.

My favourite formula is: Vision + Belief + Action = Success

Action: This week, write out what your VISION is in each of the 5 key areas in life (health/wealth/relationships/spirit-self/purpose-career), and WHY it’s so important for you to focus on these visions in your life. 

In this week’s Episode of Relaunch My Life Radio (5 Keys to Fulfilment – VISION) I explain this in more detail and also run through a few activities to support you to find the balance between planning for your future and trusting that it will come to pass.

And, on page 98 in my book ‘Relaunch My Life’ take some time to complete the activities in the 5 Keys to Fulfilment – Vision chapter.

Find that sweet spot between planning and trusting…

So, what’s your vision for your future?

And are you super clear about what you want to create in your life?

The key is finding that sweet spot between planning for the future, and trusting that it will flow to you as it is supposed to  – and accepting it may very well be totally different to how you imagine!

As always, I am wishing you so much love and respect for where you are at on your life journey right now.

I’m heading off to Bali this weekend to run my third and final Women’s Retreat, and am so excited to enjoy this experience and honour of hosting such a beautiful retreat, and at a very luxurious venue, The Floating Leaf! It will definitely be another ‘pinch me’ moment in my life.

I’d love to hear your take aways from the Podcast this week, please comment below or email me any time.

xx

With Love and Respect,

Juliet